Basically it always comes down to "Which side are you on?" Including the "plague on both your houses" side.
There are some things we're never going to agree on. Doesn't mean we have to hate each other about it. But good songs get written out of emotion, and emotion is not neutral.
And, as I always tend to say in these kind of threads, always remember that the suffering in and by America was a shadow of the suffering by the people of Vietnam, where the mines and the poison are still killing children to this day..