Not really sure about the Kurt Cobain thing...I was only 15 when he comitted suicide, and I really knew nothing about him, except he was in a bang called Nirvana. Remember, I was listening to nothing but couuntry back then. So I really had no opinion on it, except "What a stupid thing to do." It really didn't define anything for me. I remember being more shaken up when Jimmy Valvano & Davey Allison died. And hating to bring it up, but I think that the defining "death" for this generation was Princess Diana.