Ah, Terri, big hugs and virtual snogs to you and yours, my puir darlin'...here are some threads which we've posted quite a bit to about this subject, one of which you started yourself. I am sure you can find some there which you might like. My deepest sympathies and I am sending all the love and energy I have to help you and the kids through this. BB, kat
What song do you want at your funeral?
Funeral tunes, songs that heal
your own funeral