'So cheer up guy (or gal)' ---no

'And let us know who you are'---no

'we wont be mad at you for expressing your opinion.'---right

'Lighten Up !!'---no

'Live and let live !!'---no

'And I'll post Creeque Alley if you fool with me !!'---who? (can't stop you! that won't make you 'right')

All I will do is try to bite my tongue MOST of the time! I dont want to have a constant argument going, I only want some awareness in the group that there is a real issue here!