this is someting i think about/have to deal with a lot, too. but actually, i like distractions . . . or at least, having to cajole/win over an audience. Much prefer playing in noisy bars and dives than in hushed folk clubs. then, as kytrad said, to just lay it all on the line and go as deep into the song as possible . . . when people quiet down and tune in, i feel their energy much more strongly.

i have no idea how to get there except through the song.

one exception: on nights when i'm still off, and straining no matter what, i just ask the soundperson to up the reverb in the vocal monitor. the result sounds so goofy and mermaid-like, i can't help but giggle and relax.

erica