thanks Karen, It sounds exactly like your situation, we finish each others sentences and can spend all day together but she is not physically attracted to me (although at the beginning she was), and to be honest even my attraction for her is less physical than emotional and intellectual. I dont know, to me though if youre with someone you can really talk to youre halfway there. When we first broke it off 2 years ago I wasnt really hurt just disappointed as I wasnt that close to her, now Im more bothered by the loss of her friendship than anything else. And I have a feeling we will be friends for a long time yet as Im not one to carry baggage. But I do need my space now. I know her life is in a bit of turmoil as she recently gave up on a planned musical career as well as some other emotional events she needs to sort out. the funny thing is she admits that lately she feels like a 19yr old male that right now shes just into the physical thing and even acknowledges that men who are pr

thanks everyone for your comments, It helps to just talk about it.