Sad guest, the most galling thing (and I've been through it) is that the person you love is attracted to a Jerk. It makes you wonder whether women REALLY want the things they say they want. Sensitivity and sharing of interests sometimes can't hold a candle to physical lust. There's always the chance that she'll be more interested after she gets dumped by him. Don't be too proud to try again. Some women sow as many wild oats as some men do, or should that be 'receive' wild oats.

marty