to clarify, amos, we have talked, we actually went on weekend trip together to a music festival, I dont really know why she agreed to come but she later admitted she thought about getting out of it. It was important that the matter come out though.

Ive also been on the other side of it too. I was friends with woman who I knew was attracted to me and while she was a lovely person and we did hang out together alot I was not physically attracted to her, yet she misread a number of things and eventually ended up getting hurt so I know what its like.