the 'best' way would be for both sides to say.."hey...lets quit fighting and arguing over who 'gets' what territory...lets just live the best we can and share the area, the government, the problems....NO more reprisals or bullets or rock throwing."

am I a wild dreamer? sure....[and yes, I realize that would mean no more forced Jewish settlements and open immigration policies...and no more limitations of Jewish visits to the Temple Mount...etc...therefore, it will never work...but it would be 'best']