Take heart, *he* gummed up, not you. It is better to have it end now, before the possibility of him seeing someone else without telling you, and the feeling of betrayal htat comes with -that!-. This is small comfort at the moment, though. Let yourself cry, the catharsis really does help get things better. Not to wallow in sorrow, mind, but to prevent bottling all that junk up inside you. Like baking a cake, the passage of time is one of the essential ingredients here, so roll with the punch, and don't be too hard on yourself. In the end, it's better to keep your standards high and lose a lot of boyfriends than be stuck with a real bowser. "You gotta kiss a buncha frogs before you find the prince." (sometimes; you don't want to take up frog-kissing as a major hobby though.) {{((Firecat))}}