Liz is the picture of grace.Hear, hear about men who aren't turned on by bony women. Then again I'm a weirdo. I fell in love with my (now) wife over the internet, sight unseen. We've been married 4 years as of next Thursday (the 19th). Just as happy now as then, if not more so. (No, she's not bony. Anything else is none of your business.)
So when I say "it's the mind, the heart that matter" -- my experience backs me up!
Alex