Liz, what counts is heart, and this guy obviously needs one. You're still all right in my book and now my esteem has risen a few notches because of how you have handled the idiot who posted those messages.

And I agree with Mrzzy. "...you can do everything right and kids can STILL turn out )*&^)^ed up." That's my story too and no matter what my kids do, I'm sticking to it!