Speaking of a load of bullshit, Alex, you're wrong. I can remember a few threads started by guests who got flamed just for simply being guests, and not because of what they said. One that really sticks out in my head was a woman, a friend of a regular Mudcatter, who asked about ending a marriage and she got a lot of crap about who she really was, and what she really meant to do.

I don't think telling folks about searching for songs constitutes "flaming," even if the poster sounds irritated.