Dgh, I'm afraid that the one indisputable fact (you too Larry) is that it ain't gonna get BETTER. I'm a big believer that our personal mental health is worth more than anything...music, money, social causes, whatever. 'Cause without it we BECOME those troublesome musicians. Fold the band. Take a three or four week break.....then start a NEW band, with the ones you want (who may very well be two thirds of the OLD band.

Good luck

Rick