Why don't you just name names, Joe, it's no mystery you are talking about me.
The thread where I asked for help for myself, is the first time I've ever done that here. I do not have to justify that to you or anyone else. What I can say is the support it generated for me and the time I am going through has been real. There is nothing shallow about it, including all of the phone calls, emails, and PM's I've received as well as real, physical offers of help.
You are belittling the community we've built here with your personal abhorence for what I am and do. Too bad you didn't answer my PM and insisted on keeping it in the threads.