The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #36577 Message #507639
Posted By: KingBrilliant
16-Jul-01 - 11:07 AM
Thread Name: Dear Joe Offer et al
Subject: RE: Dear Joe Offer et al
I agree with Joe etc - that if we all posted our problems then the site would be overwhelmed. I also agree with a lot of what Jim Dixon said. At a low ratio its not a problem because its easy to keep away from what you don't like - however if the ratio rises then it will have an impact on the site
I am happy to include the sick in my prayers, if they are 'catters or are close to 'catters. That's pretty much where my personal line goes though. Any other problem that is not music-related I am unlikely to be bothered about unless I know the individual - same as in 3D.
Having said that I bet I forget all that if ever I feel in need of a conceptual hug!!
Problem is, you can't separate the people from the music - and its unlikely Mudcat will go back to pure music threads. And it might be a bit dry if it did.
One point I would make though is that having started a thread on a personal problem, one shouldn't then take exception if any particular response isn't exactly what you were looking for - ie someones opinion doesn't agree with your own assessment of the situation. That would be self-indulgent.
Kris