Oh, not good... Keep making plans with her, for spending time when she finishes work. Very difficult to know what else to do.

Fionn makes an important, but unpalatable point.

A thought I was given that helped me put a lot in perspective over the last couple of years: We are each responsible for our own destiny. Though you can help her as a friend, you cannot control her actions nor are you responsible for them... I would be very happy to talk more about this with you.

Much love to you both,

Noreen