Guest,

If no one has yet mentioned it and if things go baddly for you and your friend now is the time to find someone who YOU can talk with. This kind of confidence is a resposibility that is impossible for a friend to ignore and almost as impossible for a friend to bear.

A similar situation came to me twenty five years ago and now and then I still relive the whole experience and it affects me for days.

One thing you must know is what you can't do. You can't stop a person who is determined. And should your friend be so determined you mustn't think any of this is because you didn't act quick enough or direct her to the right resource.

I hope all works out well for you,

Don Meixner