IMO, this has nothing to do with how guests behave, and everything to do with the fact that some people will always want to play forum den mother/net cop.Also, some people are totally unaware of the ways they project their fear and paranoia of strangers/guests on anon. guests here, regardless of how a guest behaves. Some people seem especially prone to this sort of unease about strangers, and here in Mudcat, it seems to be a problem more for those who use the forum as a substitute for real life relationships, and/or as a therapy support group.
I say to hell with those anti-anon begrudgers playing Mudcat net cops. Post however you feel comfortable posting. A quality, informative post is always worthwhile, regardless of the source. Ignore the fear and paranoia of the few, and contribute to the music discussions. Music is, after all, the point here...