I have to admit I don't really have too much problem with the guest thing - I know people who appear as a named guest who contibute regularly and have there own reasons for not joining and who am I to judge. Those who choose to be anonymous -well it's their loss, especially when they have positively contributed because it can be a wonderfully supportive community here. Those who flame and troll -frankly I don't want to know who they are and I certainly wouldn't want them to join!