the Lady has reported minor strokes - I read them as TIA's but it amounts to the same thing.
It sure explains the suddeness of the memory loss. It coincided with the next door neighbour on holiday for 3 weeks which muddied the analysis. Alzheimers is maybe not the correct diagnosis - there is a circulation problem and osteoarthritis and you name it. She was unhappy at home ultimately and seems more relaxed in "care" but wants to be in her own home, not that she knew it was hers in the last few days.
still don't have a firm plan for the telephone conversation opening gambit.
the daughter is already on a guilt trip about the care home and the internal conflicts that brings, despite the necessity.
Oh well, my back is broad and I got my reward if only for 2 minutes.
Thanks