Well spoken Peg.Isn't it hilarious how all those people who discuss Gay 'morality' ad nauseum have all these Gay friends? In my work I've interacted with Gay and Lesbian folk for years and never got the impression they sought out conflicted heteros as 'best friend' material. Maybe all these 'friendships' are a tad one sided.
I'll go with those who think that folk music would have to be a bit more 'glitzy' and 'cutting edge' before you'll see more 'out' Gay men participating.
marty