And always remember that the people who do play around in this grotesque way are liars.
No point in arguing with them, because they aren't really saying anything, they are just using words as a way of goading people into responding. Words being used just as counters. And they step out of the way as we run at them.
It's fighting with shadows. And in a time and circumstances like this... I almost find it harder to put myself into that kind of mind than into the mind of the people who did this awful thing.