Damn! Hit the submit while i was thinking about what i wanted to say...don't you hate that?!

SharonA, What a sad and poignant image at the end of this most extraordinary thread.To think of you slaving away at work with no time to think or grieve,then going home with only enough time to prepare yourself for the next day.....

For me,it's the opposite: "the events" have cost me my next month's work (a tour of the states) so i will have more than enough time to sit on my butt and contemplate the ways of mankind....

Consider yourself hugged my dear,you deserve it!

trasno