you've been a success now go and do it sme night somewhere else.Another idea is to ''pass the spoon'' the person holding it leads then passes it on to the next person if some one doesn't wish to lead they simply pass it on . good luck. Everyone who attends our sing sess puts £1 in the pot, we've enough in the kitty so we've started up a separate folk club with guests. If that works we'll be putting on concerts next.