My question on this subject is: Does having an affiliation with cats help to get you in the inner clique? Especially if your cat affiliation is also tied into music?If so... My handle is Blackcatter because 7+ years ago I helped start a open-mike night at my Unitarian church. The first one was on Friday the 13th, so the natural name we came up with was the Blackcat Cafe. My "in real life" name is Tom Cook, one of the other co-founders frequently refers to me as TC - which eventually became Top Cat - and eventually morphed into Blackcat(ter)
I doubt I'm in any inner clique - mostly because I come and go around here - Sometimes I don't seem to even check in for several months (but I found the Mudcat over 2 years ago) My problem is that I'm easily distrac