Clinton,

Finding the path is a bit like surfing--you have to have a sense of when the next wave is on the way. There is some instinctive "greed gene" that helps certain individuals to find that path, and, unfortunately, if my life is an indication, I don't have it at all. If you haven't got it, the best you can hope for it to spot someone who does and hope that you get to it before it passes over--