If you can't stand the way a session operates, you can either try to change it to be the way you want[...]

Jeri, that is probably the thing that bugs me most of all. I'd rather people just accept and try to fit into existing setups rather than try to change what a number of people may have been enjoying for years. If a session is not for you or doesn't fit your ways, go and find one that does or start one.

Jon