It is so easy to fool ones self. Some years ago, a married woman came on to me. We had a fling, but, I couldn't take the guilt that went with it, so, when she told me she wanted to be with me more than anything in the world, I pointed out that it was obviously not true. If it were true, she would have been with me. I yold her to get unmarried then we would explore, but, she didn't have the courage to do it, so, it died out. Believe me, there is no future in getting mixed up with a married man/woman. If he will screw around on her, he will screw around on you.