My mother, God rest her, gave me a love of the written word but more importantly she taught me the value of the golden rule: Treat others as you wish to be treated. (Not the other golden rule which says he who has the gold makes the rules). Both of my parents instilled a love of music and a love of learning. Condolences to Crowhugger and Heather Fielding. No words can help but I do offer my wish that you grief eases quickly. Kindes reguards, Neil