I think DougR needs to find his way into a safe, insulated world where no one will hurt him and his feelings anymore.

We should probably stop badgering him with difficult concepts like "an eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind." I think it makes the voices telling him to avenge the innocents get louder and louder.

Noam Chomsky is right. There is no point in trying to explain the elementary to those who choose to remain intentionally naive and ignorant.