I'd probably just base my choice on whether or not I'd be embarrassed if I farted in the bathroom, ran into someone with a small, or no amount of clothing on (either me or the other person). I like not having to worry about doing something that bothers someone because folks will know me well enough to tell me, or tell someone that does know me. For the record, there are some FSGW members I'd feel comfortable with, and there are some Mudcatters I don't. (And it's not that I don't like someone or even anything they do, it's just how relaxed I feel around them, and that is TOTALLY based on my personality weirdnesses.)

As far as partying till 4 AM, we managed that in the TV room of the main building on Sun. Actually closer to 5, I think. I am STILL recovering!

I think an awful lot of this thread is devoted to imagined perceived problems anyway. I think we're trying to fix things when we don't know what's broken, or even if anything is. Obviously some people had problems, but they might have been isolated incidents, like SINSULL's experience. Maybe we'll get more information when the feedback forms are all in.