Ill second that opinion Jeri - I'm amazed at how easily I am able to interact - both at the Getaway and at Old Songs; I have other functions I attend with people I have known much longer - and my usual modus operenda is to sit in the corner - and a few people come by- but mostly I "people watch" - trying to drag me into the thick of thinks is almost garunteed to make me leave. I think part of it is that at both Getaway and Old songs there is so much to do and see I don't have time to "just observe" ; but everyone is different this way.