Ah, well, whatever makes ya happy (that's the whole point, isn't it?). I've had such teeny-tiny Christmases of late that I want to make my Secret Santa's gift part of the day's celebration, so I hope (s)he'll understand. Last year: no Christmas dinner at all, and no present-exchanging with the family till the following Sunday (around my father's retirement-home-room bed). Fortunately a friend brought over a pressie in the morning, and I had two song-share parties to attend, so that was nice.