Oh My God! What did I start.I hope this isn't going to be the "he man woman haters club" All you ladies out there,I'm sure you are great people. I hopeyou understand that from a man's point of view the issues are frightening.Take care of each other the best you can and don't ever stop trying.I hate being alone. Lost my mom around the same time of my divorce so I was quite vulnerable.Basically I'm alone in this marriage and need to bail out.I'm just afraid at 49 that no one will want me.Even if I am a good looking guy so they say!I believe that when people age they learn to cope because there is no hope of fixing there marriage. For those of you who stayed married for a long time I admire you don't get me wrong. But did you stay together for the right reasons and not out of fear of being alone?I hope this isn't the case.Well.See you guys. Sh Sh Sh Sh Shark!Mudshark