Thank you shallow woman for the greater revelation of character or should I say lack thereof in yourself. Any credibility to your perspectives has been completely destroyed by the condescending air of your last entry. How sad it is that you have become so bitter. To have answered someones genuine cry for help with duplicity in a forum like this is quite beyond anything I've seen on the web. I suppose it gives you a chance to feel smug and superior. Nobody's a genius when it comes to relationships and we all put our pants on one leg at a time. Yeah, Mr. Mudshark's got some growing to do and needs to do some self-examination, but all in all I'd take his honest ignorance and lack of 'super intelligence' over your sanctimonious claptrap, anytime. You revealed a great deal more about yourself from your last paragraph than it would seem you intended. Read it very, very carefully...it is seething w/ rage and frustration. Thank God you've been blessed w/dutiful daughters. Ultimately, you didn't intend to help, but to deceive and to hurt. And as I re-read your last sentence it struck me that it's not that your advancing in years that's the real sin here, but that you're doing it with no grace.