Well...murray...I do happen to know the difference between gender and sexual orinetation....I was poking fun at you...but since you are so stuck on yourself you did not appear to realise it. I ask again why is this so important? There are a few people here who do not wish to be identified by sex. Why should they come forward just to satisfy your curiosity? Besides this bullshit has been discussed before....maybe you could have spent a couple of minutes looking for that up...instead of wasting a perfectly good thread on it...but then that would have taken a whole five minutes...can't be wasting your time can we?