Yes, you should, Peter. It's really tough on kids when the parents don't designate. My mom avoided it because she didn't want to hurt anyone's feelings. We did a great job of not fighting and she would have been proud of us, but it would have been better had she done so.

We all play, too, but there was some estrangement years ago, so I'm not sure what dad actually plans on doing with his. He knows my feelings about it. Now, it's let the chips fall where they may.

Sorry, off the soapbox now.:-)