Jim, I wouldn't be interested in playing in a band with people like that- sounds no fun at all. Bands I've played with have all had respect for each others musical talents and opinions, and so everyone has tried to fit in with each other, rather than trying to force others into their may of thinking. It's been more like:

OK, I'll do it YOUR way...No, *I'll* do it YOUR way!

Thanks for the link, Alison- interesting chap- and he plays the accordion too! *grin*