Most of my family were cremated, except for one or two stalwarts who opted for the old-fashioned way. I expect I shall go with the majority, but if there's anything useful I'm happy for it to go to a good "home".

I dont think I've ever been to visit any of their graves; I've never felt the need, since they're all still there in my heart. I shall have a memorial service of some kind--I think that's most important. I shall not have "Imagine" played: "Imagine there's no heaven ..."--no thank you!

Steve