Re tone deaf....have a friend that insisted she's tone deaf...was TOLD so as a child, told to just mouth words in the chorus, etc. One day not long ago, while sitting in the car at the beach, as she was going on about this, I said...Open your door....she did so and the seat belt tone came on. I said, Now SING THAT! And of course, she did...right on the money. Tone deaf...NOT. Adults have a lot to answer for!!