I just learned how to do this myself. Go back to the main forum page (with the list of threads.) At the top is a list of "Quick Links." Scroll down this list until you get to "Send a Personal Message". Click on this to highlight it and then click on GO. (right next to this list.) The rest of the instructions are pretty straightforward. It's my understanding this allows you to send e-mail to another Mudcatter without either of you having to disclose your acutal e-mail addresses. Hope this helps. Zhenya