Well if the Banjo was satisfying a need other than filling in time usefully you will be subjugating that need while the deficit department is emptied of other ghost. The banjo may be sneaking in there. What I am saying is - the ballance in your life is temporal and before the time comes, review what fullfills you otherwise you may be missing out long term.

When I met Joy I laid out a few rules eg the importance folk music to me. Such was the rapport she didn't see them as rules. But then within 6 months she tells me what dances we go to, explains the ceilidh steps to others and invents infill moves.
Jumping with Joy - you bet.