Bonnie - You are best when you give your concentration on one aim at a time. When your aim was beginning banjo you worked on that. When you went to Dillar's camp - you focused on that. It's a good way to be , because whatever you do - you put the utmost energy into it and try to excel. So here's hoping that you excel at your new romance - and just thank god he doesn't play bagpipes. Now that you play banjo very well, you'll always have it available to be part of your life whenever you want -isn't that great!