The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #43548   Message #636913
Posted By: Jerry Rasmussen
27-Jan-02 - 10:03 PM
Thread Name: BS: Mudcat Chatter
Subject: RE: BS: Mudcat Chatter
Hey, Spaw: I never thought that you were saying "Love it or leave it." I thought that your remarks were very measured and not confrontational. You are right of course. If someone is really dissatisfied with something, whether it's a job, a church, mudcat, a musical group... you name it, there comes a point where it's best for all concerned if they do leave. I've seen too many people in churches who hate everything about the service and half the people there, and when I ask them why they keep coming if they're so miserable and make everyone else miserable they say, "I've been coming here for years, and this is where all my friends are." Deliver me from those kind of friends. Mudcat can't be all things to all cats. Sometimes, it IS best to move on. Not suggesting that anyone do that. That's their decision. I like it here. I only wish that I had been free enough to come here sooner. That's not saying, "love it or leave it." There are some on Mudcat who have reached a point of irritation where they'd say that, and I guess I wouldn't criticize them for that. I don't really know what's going on yet, to criticize anyone.
Jerry