I'll tell you the story of my 2 (yes, I said two) proposals. In retrospect, I find much humor in them. My first wife (neat lady) PROPOSED TO ME! That marriage lasted 26 years, until I stopped it. After nine single years, Bride Judy and I met. I courted her for six months, and damned if SHE didn't propose to me too! Sure, yah, O.K., I went along with the game plan until the morning of the wedding. As we were getting dressed for the wedding, with the whole famdamly around, I was suddenly obsessed with the thought, "damnit, I want to propose just once." So I kicked all of her daughters and other family members out of the bedroom, where they were fussing with Mommy, and proposed to her! She seemed surprised that I felt that I needed too, but I sure felt better. It's being a grand marriage ... we're in our sixth year. CHEERS, Bob