Thank you all, for taking the time to answer my question.

What happened was we were talking about her coming up here instead of me going down there for our next vacation.

We had decided on Vday week, but a couple of days later she told me that something came up and she could not take those days off from work. So she got the preceding week off, knowing I had plans that Saturday, though she told me I could go and she could stay back and read, or something. We got the issue settled, but as it got closer and closer I got more and more troubled by it. Oh well. Will decide what to do Saturday. Thanks.