I'll tell you something, gnu (yes, I'm still up).

I'm really, really sorry you were hurt so badly that you would feel the way that you do now. But I have to say that I'm in fundamental disagreement with you about how women experience these kinds of things, and how deeply we can be hurt and effected by them. I believe we feel them every bit as deeply as you say men do, and it hurts us just as much when they turn out badly. But I guess it would be pretty impossible for either one of us to prove what we believe is true, being, as we are, on opposite sides of the gender divide.

Thank you, everyone who is contributing the songs. I love them and think they are wonderful. And all perspectives on the questions are very much appreciated, whether I agree with them or not.