W.W right on. Here is an illustration of the difference between men and women. If a man wants to disable a tank, he will take a bazooka and blow it all to hell. If a woman 3wants to disable a tank, she will sneak up on it, and pour sugar into the fuel tank. Same result, but, no noise. We are hard wired differently that's a fact. But, that does not preclude trying to understand each other.