I ONLY WISH I had picked men on the basis of being a good father. Smack myself in the head, I screwed up by being too romantic and not looking at their character. Women are trained to be romantic, hence the term, "chick flick". Living in fantasy land when it comes to men - doesn't usually turn out too well.

My son so far only exhibits the porcine side by letting his room get kind of smelly with old laundry piled on the floor... but then he washes it himself. He told me when he was 13 to not wash his clothes any more, because he would rather do it himself. He does, about once a week, but in the mean time, the pile ferments.

Alice